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The Bottom Line Life is not completely fair or equal. Don’t get bogged down in nickels and dimes. In Detail If you spend too much time thinking about how to make everything equal and fair between you and your friends, you will create way too much work for yourself. Life just isn’t fair all the time, as difficult as that may be for you to acknowledge. It’s a messy affair full of selfishness and selflessness. Look at the big picture. As long as you think things are generally equitable, don’t worry. You mustn’t get bogged down in counting nickels and dimes.

That is what my horoscope today in friendster. Well, honestly I do believe in a lot of superstitious stuffs. Not because I don’t believe in God and all of His creation, it’s just felt nice to have an awareness of the future.

I asked my sister last week, why life doesn’t fair enough for me. You know how in the movie, the bad guys always becoming the loser, but I know it was different in the real life, sometimes when we’re just do all of the sacrifices it doesn’t pay off the way we want it. I was so tired in the play, and it just doesn’t feel good to see other people got lucky enough to get happiness that easy without pain and gain. I felt that the world just envy me with all of the problems I have got in my life.

Well, my sister’s answer was amazed me, to me she grew up a lot more mature even she’s the one who can tell me what to do now! “ It’s just the chapter of your life, maybe you are still in a chapter five before you can get your happiness in chapter 20 or maybe in chapter 80” she thinks that life is like a novel, you keep adding it until it says “the end” in the end. You choose your option of life in the novel but you will never be able to change the script and the destiny of yourself. I know all of this are bring myself together, I become stronger and I also believe that everything happened in life was just a lecture to be learned.

Well, I just hope and pray that everything will come in places. I believe God will never give us something impossible, everything is possible in His name and whatever come around I believe that’s the next step where I’m going to be……